How To Trigger Deep Level Attraction In Women
In a minute I'm going to introduce you to some concepts and techniques for leaving women no choice but to feel sexual attraction for you. Yet… what I'm about to suggest has zero to do with sporting great looks or possessing bins of cash.
Although developing your sense humor and personality are crucial to succeeding with women, this letter isn't about attracting women through telling jokes or entertaining them.
A few of these secrets I've never mentioned. I've been hoarding them for myself ‘til now.
Feel free to take the material I'm going to share with you and use it to attract women. It will give you a taste of what's possible. Don't be surprised if you feel the urge to learn more.
But first…
I want to share a story with you (Note: you might feel a temptation to skip the story and dive into the good stuff. But don't. It's important).
A buddy of mine recently felt despondent over his success with women, which amounts to a big, fat zero.
But here's the weird part…
He's fearless at approaching women. He's a master at engaging them in conversation – most women find him funny and charming. He has no problem getting their numbers, talking to them on the phone, and setting up dates. He's got heaps of girls willing to break their plans to spend time with him.
But...
He cannot, for the life him, become sexually intimate with these women because…
They feel no attraction for him.
Convinced that his looks are holding him back, he's thinking about going under the knife. The procedures he's considering are so disgusting that when he told me about them I could feel my throat moving up-and-down inside my neck skin, struggling to keep my last meal from hurling up.
The reality is… looks aren't his problem. He's not a bad looking guy.
But there is something that's slaughtering his success with women.
However, he's not a strange aberration, an attraction retard we should cull from society and stick on a leper colony.
In fact… most of the male population is plagued with his problem.
The majority of men think attraction has to do with physical preference. “If you aren't a woman's type, you're better off moving on,” they lament.
Some develop their personalities, thinking it's their ticket to stoking women's bellies with an endless supply of attraction.
Developing your personality can help… but only if it's coupled with something else… something I'm going to share with you in a minute.
When most men see a woman throwing herself at an average looking male, they think, “He must have a mystical and innate sex appeal.”
Well, my friend, there isn't anything mystical or inborn about this guy's sex appeal. At a certain point he stumbled onto doing something to women that neither my friend nor 9/10ths of men trudging through the single seen trenches know exists.
I'm talkin' about SEXUAL TENSION
“What exactly is sexual tension?” you might be wondering.
It's a mixture of emotions: think excitement with a dash of fear, titillation with a tinge of uneasiness, and intrigue with a smidgen of worry.
Unlike the answer to a math problem, our cognitive faculties aren't responsible for producing sexual tension.
Instead... more primitive areas of our brain – known as the limbic and reptilian systems – bring sexual tension to life.
That's why a woman cannot choose to feel or NOT feel sexual tension for a guy. It is outside of her conscious control.
There are two forms of sexual tension: Passive Sexual Tension (PST) and Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Passive Sexual Tension (PST) is when you do or say something that besots a woman into a passive sexual state.
Years ago my sister and her friends got to have dinner with Johnny Depp. She was so attracted to Mr. Depp, that she just sat there like dumb dear in headlights, gawking at him in silence and feeling too tongue tied to talk.
That's an example of Passive Sexual Tension.
I teach tons of ways to trigger Passive Sexual Tension without possessing Johnny Depp's mug in Sexual Connections course.
But I'm not going to talk about them in this letter. Instead I want to discuss Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Active Sexual Tension is similar to its passive brother except that it activates structures in a woman's brain that compel her to resolve the tension by behaving in very specific ways.
Let's say, for example, I'm talkin' to a woman and sense that she's into me.
At a certain point I might say to her: “You are terribly sarcastic…but that's cool because I'm the exact same way. And if we were to hang out we'd have the best time making fun of the people around us at their expense… but then our Karma would be tainted… so we can NEVER be friends.”
Most likely, this will trigger Active Sexual Tension, compelling her to insist: “Noo! We have to hang out! We've gotta be friends! We are going to have so much fun!”
Can you see why this is works? Why it's so powerful?
This example plays on a psychological mechanism you already know about.
When someone tells us that we cannot have something, it builds tension in us... and our mind is programmed to release that tension by attempting to get that thing.
Think of a car salesman. When he has a prospect hemming and hawing over a car, he knows that if he tells the prospect the car won't be there tomorrow because several other people are interested in purchasing it, there's a good chance the prospect will buy the car on the spot.
But, when you spark this tension in the context of dating and attraction, it becomes sexualized.
Active Sexual Tension should be structured as a tension loop...
1). Tension is sparked.
2). Tension is increased
3). Tension is released.
4). Tension is spark all over again.
Good movies have this structure…
The movie begins by introducing conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension inside the viewer.
Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax.
The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama.
And, finally, the movie ends by sparking that tension all over again, compelling you to see the sequel.
To get a feel for this, here's a real life dialogue…
It started off with the woman commenting on something I was saying to her friend.
Girl: Ew… that's gross. You're gross.
Swinggcat: (said after a long sigh) I had a feeling you couldn't handle me!
Girl: No no! That's not true. I can handle you.
Swinggcat: Alright… let's see how well you thumb wrestle.
(I win the thumb wrestling competition by shamelessly cheating).
Girl: You cheated! That's no fair. I want a rematch.
Swinggcat: You know what… you're a feisty woman who knows what she wants. I like that about you.
Girl: Thanks
Swinggcat: You just went up a notch in my book. Now you're at a one.
Girl: (laughing) You're F- ing really funny!
Swinggcat: You have good taste.
Girl: You have good taste. You're talkin' to me.
Swinggcat: Let's find out (I grab her and kiss her).
Swinggcat: Mm! I do have good taste.
This isn't just some cutesy conversation I had with a woman. There are a lot of deep, psychological mechanisms at work here and many layers of communication taking place.
One you might be familiar with is Push-Pull: emotionally pushing a woman a way from you, and then pulling her back in. Notice how one piece of communication pushes her away... and then next pulls her in. This builds heaps of sexual tension.
But there's something else that's very powerful going on here...
Each time I spark tension, she behaves a little differently. That's because different types of tension hit different structures in the brain that cause women to release the tension by behaving in different ways.
I call these different neurological structures "compliance triggers."
If you've mastered the art of setting off these compliance triggers, you can write your own destiny with women.
To reap their power, you don't need to speak in a way that would make you come across as weird or creepy to women.
For example... in the dialogue above I used very ordinary language.
Though ordinary, I used it in such a way that it set off several compliance triggers.
Over the past several years I've discovered dozens of these compliance triggers. And recently I created a course called Sexual Connections where I divulge every one of these compliance triggers and spell out step-by-step how to master them so they become a part of who you are.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
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Your Loyal Dating Coach,
P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at:
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