Sunday, February 17, 2008

The Right Way To Brag To Women

The Right Way To Brag To Women

Fact: Sporting a fat bank account, becoming a Rhodes scholar, speaking five languages fluently, and having traveled the world three times over again are all attraction assets that CAN dramatically boost your success with women if used in the right way.

Here's why…

The more attraction assets you reveal to a woman in the right way, the higher your PRIZABILITY – the degree to which she sees you as a PRIZE she's compelled to win over.

Typically, as your PRIZABILITY with a woman increases, so does the attraction she feels toward you.

“But, Swinggcat, I don't have any attraction assets,” you might be worrying.

Everyone possesses attraction assets. Maybe they don't know it yet. Do you know a stupid magic trick you stole from a kindergartener when you were in the first grade? Can you wiggle your ears or curl your tongue?

My point…

You Can Turn Anything Into An Attraction Asset, As Long As You Present It To Women In The Right Way!

Have you ever noticed how much time most women put into wrapping a present? They've got to find the perfect paper, the right ribbons and bows, and the ideal card. How the present is presented is more important, for many women, than the present itself.

The same holds true for conveying attraction assets.

In a minute I'm going to reveal the right way to convey an attraction asset.

But first…

I want to tell you a story. Inside this story you'll discover a dangerous mistake most men are guilty of yet oblivious to...

A few weeks ago I was talking to a friend of mine. The conversation started off friendly yet ended up turning into a proverbial Quaalude. If conversations had a taste or smell, this one would have reeked of foot and ass.

He started overtly bragging to me about all of the people he knew, money he had… and so on.

After twenty minutes of him boasting galore, I was bored out of my mind. I felt like he was trying to get a job from me, presenting his résumé the best he could.

I was not impressed.

Am I jaded?

No – because no matter how spine-tingling his accomplishments were, I'd be yawning with boredom.

In fact… It wasn't anything he said in particular that turned me off.

What irked me was the way he said it. How he bragged made him look desperate for approval from me.

His Need For Validation Made Him Look Like A Hungry Coyote Who Hadn't Eaten In Weeks!

What is the lesson to be learned?

Bragging in a way that conveys a need for approval and validation turns women off – especially those who are educated, intelligent, and experienced.

You could have the most impressive résumé in the world, but if you brag in a way that conveys your need for validation and approval, your attraction assets will mutate into attraction liabilities.

Here's why…

When you seek a woman's validation and approval, the Meta-Frame or the underlying meaning of your interaction with her gets recontextualized as her being the PRIZE, not you. This is dangerous because…

Women Feel No Attraction Toward Men They Don't Perceive As A Prize!

But the good news is…

There are ways to present your attraction assets to women without looking needy for validation or approval.

Here's one of my favorites...

I'll tell a woman a story to disclose my attraction assets.

But here's the key… and this is important… so pay attention…

The plot of the story is never about one of my attraction assets. If it were, I'd risk coming across as needy to impress women.

Instead, my attraction assets become either a detail within the story or the context the story takes place in.

I've got a fun, light-hearted story, for example, I've been telling women for years about how when I was in Prague I discovered that all women are perverts.

While the plot is devoid of any attraction assets, the context the story takes place in contains the attraction asset I want to convey – namely, that I'm well traveled.

A friend once argued: “If a woman has been to Prague, isn't the attraction asset you're trying to disclose going to have as little impact as conveying to her that you've been to McDonalds before?”

If she's spent time in Prague , this story ain't gonna make her drop to her knees and kiss your feet.

But so what! Most likely, it's not that often she comes across someone who's also been to Prague . You and her share an experience the people around you probably don't. And that, my friend, is an attraction asset in its own right.

Maybe you're thinking, “This strategy sounds great. The only problem is, I'm not a great storyteller.”

Well, I've got news for you…

Every Ladies Man Has At Least A Few Great Stories – And For A Good Reason…

Storytelling is one of the best mediums for conveying your attraction assets to a woman.

But even if you don't think you're a great storyteller, you're in luck because…

Inside my course you'll discover secrets for turning your most mundane experiences into put-women-on-the-edge-of-their-seats stories. You'll learn step-by-step in plain English how to craft stories on the fly without the need to memorize anything.

But this only scratches the surface…

My course is a complete education on succeeding with women where many men just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to consistently approach, engage, attract, connect, and become intimate with the women they desire.

Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.

I'm so confident that you're going to absolutely love my course that I'm gonna let you test drive it free of charge.

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What to do when a woman tells you, you're not my type?

Admit it...

A woman letting a man know he's not her type is so common it's almost cliché.

...and when it happens to you - it sucks. It can feel like you've hit a brick wall.

But, honest to God, there are some men who revel in women barking at them with, "You're not my type."

It puts a big shi*t eating grin on their face because...

They possess the secret to mutating this comment from a woman into massive attraction inside her body.

I should know. I'm one of these men.

In a minute I'm gonna let you in on this secret method that less than 98.4 % of the male population knows about, giving you an unfair advantage over others. It works so well it's almost embarrassing.

But first I want to share a story with you a guy sent into me...

"Hi Swinggcat, I have a question about something that happened to my friend while he initiated a chat with a woman inside a bus. She might have been in a slightly bad mood or tired as she answered his questions in a disinterested way and within two minutes of the chat she rejected him to his face saying 'you are too young for me'. I was just wondering if there's a solution for these kinds of situation in your book where it is possible to turn a rejection into attraction. Plz reply asap."

- K from NY

All I have to say is: Déjà vu. This reminds me of the same problem I used to have. Everything would be going fine until the women inevitably sneered, "How old are you, twelve?"

I wasn't annoyed; I was seething with frustration.

I even had one woman ask me for age verification before we... well, that's a story I'll save for another day.

But, my friend, the pendulum has swung the other way: Many women I meet think I'm a modest decade their senior.

Maybe it's age beginning to march across my face or
too many sleepless nights?

Regardless...

Whether a woman thinks I'm too young or too old for
her doesn't matter to me one bit because...

Years ago a friend of mine taught me a few short words that not only circumvent the objection but also... generate massive attraction inside women.

He was in his mid thirties yet had a penchant for really young girls: We're talkin' late teens to early twenties.

But as soon as he started flirting with a girl she'd chirp, "Dude, how old are you? You must be my dad's age."

So he racked his brain and came up with something
that's not only pure genius but also... fall-on-the-floor hilarious.

If a twenty-one year old girl objected to his age,
he'd say...

"Did you know girls age faster than guys? Take models, for example. They peak at like seventeen. By the time they're nineteen they've passed their prime. They're middle aged. You're twenty-one, making you sixty-three in girl years."

When a woman told me that I was too young for her,
I'd say this exact line but add...

"You're practically a senior citizen... Don't take this the wrong way but I'm an active guy and don't think you could handle me with your cane and all... I should introduce you to my grandmother, I think
she's more your speed."

Do you know why this generates attraction in 90.2%
of women?

Here's a quick explanation...

When a woman says, "You're too young (or old) for me," she's establishing the underlying meaning of your interaction with her as her being the Prize you're trying to win over.

This underlying meaning is what I call the
"Meta-Frame."

But... when you respond to her with the line above, it proverbially picks her up by the nape of her neck and sucks her into your Meta-Frame that you're the Prize she's trying to win over.

Doing this is what I call an "Attraction Coup."

There's a structure to the Attraction Coup. Master the structure and you can mutate any negative response or objection a woman flings your way into heaps of attraction inside her.

I'll tell you where you can get your hands on this
step-by-step structure in a minute.

Maybe, though, you're worrying, "If I use this line she'll walk away and think to herself: "Thank God that creep wasn't interested in me."?

Most of the time this isn't the case because...

Women want you to desire them - even if they aren't initially attracted to you.

Fact is... When you goad a woman into trying to convince you that she's desirable, you establish the Meta-Frame that you're the Prize she's trying to win over.

I have, for example, had many experiences where women told me they weren't interested.

But then I'd let them know they fell an inch short of what I look for in a woman... and, therefore, would never go for them.

As a result, they'd struggle for my validation and approval... and, then, it would hit them like a scolding hot frying pan across the forehead: They felt attraction for me.

I've had many of my students email me with similar
experiences.

But there's another part, a very important part that makes this effective...

And what I'm about to suggest is very advanced...

Whenever a woman feels even a smidgen of attraction
for you...

And you point out all of the reasons why the two of you make a bad match... the attraction she feels exponentially increases.

It's like putting a super-powered magnifying glass on that spec of attraction she feels toward you and transforming it into uncontrollable lust.

Go out and try this line. You'll be quite pleased, my friend, with the results.

But the reality is...

If you've spent time in the singles scene trenches, you've probably noticed women putting up other objections such as: height, weight, education, social status... and the list goes on.

"How do I respond?" you might wonder.

You could memorize an attraction coup to every objection a woman has. And inside my audio course you'll get dozens of word-for-word Attraction Coups.

But in all honesty...

There are so many objections women throw at men that having a canned response to each one is a challenge a few hairs shy of impossible.

Plus... memorizing a warehouse full of lines is a shi*t pot full of work. With a fraction of the effort you'd put into memorizing all of these canned responses, you could have at least one new
woman in your life.

But then, Swinggcat, the problem still remains...

How do you handle objections flying out of left field?

Why are some guys able to effortlessly transform any objection a woman throws at them into attraction?

I used to wonder this myself. And I have a confession to make...

I was so jealous of guys who had the wit to mutate any objection or negative response into attraction.

When I asked them how they came up with witty responses so quickly they'd shrug their shoulders and stare at me vacantly because...

It was unconscious. They had no conscious
understanding of what they did.

For a long time I thought it was an impossible skill to learn. You were either born with wit or
not.

But then it all changed when I discovered...

A learnable and repeatable structure anyone can master.

You might have all the confidence in the world. Maybe you can skillfully approach dozens of women in a single night.

But if you can't handle women's objections - and you'll inevitably get them - your chances of success with women are grim.

Whether you take the time to learn the Attraction Coup structure or not, doesn't affect my life one bit.

The few of us who know this structure will continue to turn objections into heaps of attraction, allowing us to enjoy truckloads of success with women.

The question is: Are you ready to change your life by learning this structure?

Can you imagine what it would be like to mutate any negative response you get from a woman into massive attraction?

How would that affect your life?

If you're ready to step up to the plate by treating yourself to a huge life style change, then get your hands on my audio course where you learn the ins-and-outs, master every nook and cranny, of the attraction coup...

...and receive in depth written exercises that train your brain to come up with on the fly attraction coups that mutate any test, objection, or negative response a woman throws at you into massive attraction.

My course isn't cheap... and for a good reason...

You can't get this information anywhere else in the entire world.

Take a moment to think about the cost of all the wasted time & money put into hoping and trying to succeed with women without the necessary skills to transform negative responses into colossal
attraction.

If you could purchase in a box the power to transform negative responses and objections into massive attraction, drawing the women you choose into your life, what would that be worth to you?

Be honest. I'm willing to bet it would be worth much much more than the price of my course.

Don't waste a second more getting less than the success with women you want. Life is too short and passes you by when you don't take action.

Take that step towards success and get your hands on a copy of my course right now by clicking here - you deserve it!

And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach.

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

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A Dirty Little Secret Most Women Never

A Dirty Little Secret Most Women Never
Admit To...
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I've got a question for you: Do women enjoy
being hit on - or do they loath it?

If YOU know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy
it - maybe even love it - you're well on
your way to experiencing massive success
with da ladies.

If you've got the belief, though, that women
find men hitting on them more annoying than
nails against a chalk board you're in big
trouble.

But DON'T worry, my friend, because you're
in the same position most men are.

Many a man believes women hate to be hit
on - and rightfully so.

If you, for example, frequent the bar or
club scene you've probably overheard groups
of women yapping away about how they fear
and loath men hitting on them.

But if this were so, women would wear shower
curtains to bars and nightclubs.

But they don't.

They, instead, wear skimpy little outfits
to maximize the amount of male attention
they get.

I'm gonna return to this train of thought
in a moment.

But before I do, I want to shed some
serious light on why believing women don't
like to be hit on is akin to sentencing your
penis to life in prison with no chance of parole.

No hope of him ever vacationing in that warm,
cuddly place he enjoys dancing into the wee
hours of the morning to that old Digital
Underground song "Do The Humpty Hump."

The only love he's gonna get is from
Bubba's nether regions.

Having this belief will cause a man to fear
and loath hitting on women.

He'll, for example, think to himself: "If I
approach a woman she'll see me as an
insidious little vermin she wants shunted
from her reality."

If he does get up the gall to approach a
woman, he's gonna have scrawled across his
forehead in permanent red ink: "I'm so
scared you'll reject me, I'm about to poop
my pants."

This will communicate to her, he's a
consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction
for gimps. They feel attraction toward men
who are a Prize they've gotta win over.

Okay. I think I've convinced you of how
wretched this belief is. How it will pound
any future opportunities with beautiful
women into jelly.

But you might be having second thoughts.

Maybe you're not fully convinced.

So I'm gonna rewind and go back to my
original train of thought: "The belief
that women don't like to be hit on is
crap."

If this belief ever crossed paths with
the Food & Drug Administration they'd
stamp it with an official FDA seal
saying: "100% Certified B.S."

Why do you think women spend so much
time - sometimes hours - primping and
preening themselves to go out to nightclubs
and bars?

Because they want to be hit on.

There's a school of thought, though, that
says: "Women don't dress up for men; they
do it for other women."

I think there's a grain of truth here but
what this means is that women dress up to
compete with other women for male
attention. For male validation.

In other words, one of the reasons women
put time into primping and preening
themselves is to compete for who gets hit
on the most by men.

Many a woman will never explicitly admit
she enjoys men hitting on her.

If she did, she'd risk other women
perceiving her as being at the top of
the Slut-O-Meter.

Or, even worse, people thinking she's a
power hungry rhymes-with-witch.

Wanting to be hit on is one of women's
dirty little secrets.

Think of those stupid, gossip magazines -
such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone
talks about how stupid these publications
are and claims to have never picked one up.

This is B.S.

If most people didn't read them, their
circulation wouldn't be so widespread.

The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't
wait to get our dirty little paws all over
these magazines while standing in line at
the supermarket.

A lot of us have too much pride to admit
it.

But almost all of us get picked up by our
lapels and sucked into the contents of
these papers.

Same holds true with women. Most women
claim, they hate when guys hit on them.

But most women love it. They can't get enough
of it.

But they'll never admit it. It's their
dirty little secret.

When you make no apologies for hitting on a
woman and convey the belief that by YOU
hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it
lets her know she's dealing with a real man
who's a Prize she has to win over.

If YOU believe women want and love to be
hit on, you're half way to massive success
with women. All you've gotta do is learn
the right way to hit on women.

You could go out and experiment. And if
you're willing to put in a lot of work, you
probably will become successful with
women. But it's going to be a lot of work.

Or you could take the shortcut by cracking
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Here's a sliver of what you'll learn inside my
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- Numerous female rich environments - some of
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venues to meet women. If you hate noise and
loath staying up late, you'll get the skinny
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- How to cater your approach to each of these
environments (Different venues call for slightly
different approaches). After going through my
course you'll never feel uncertain about how to
approach a woman again.
- Two lines most men use on women... yet are the
kiss of death to generating any attraction... and
secrets for avoiding them like the plague.
- The largely unknown secret difference between
approaching girls by themselves and girls with
their friends... and how to cater your approach to
get the maximum results.
- How using a few secret words five seconds after
approaching women drops their defenses ninety-one
percent of the time.
- The crucial steps for preparing yourself for the
approach (Not knowing these steps could slaughter
your chances with women).
- A simple facial expression that could balloon your
success rate at approaching women by thirty-three
percent.
- How to use four simple words to get a woman you've
never met before laughing, giggling... and driven to
chase you (Note: These words work wonders... even when
you consider the woman out of your league).
- The right energy level to approach a woman (most men
screw up their chances by approaching women with the
wrong energy level).
- The secret to opening a conversation with a woman you've never
met in a way that sucks her into your reality.
- Instead of having to memorize a bunch of cheesy pick*-up
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- How a simple demand emotionally compels women to want
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- In depth exercises that take you step-by-step from
developing your own conversation openers to actually
using them on women.

Understand that this only scratches the surface of what
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How to get a woman's phone number

Here's a question a student emailed me...

"Hi Swing!
Gotta thank you for putting out what I consider the most realistic and simple method out there for prizing women! I've got a quick question for you. If you don't close a woman that you've successfully prized the very first time you meet her, how can you pitch for her # or how do you pitch for another encounter without losing your Prizability? Say you're in a push-pull situation and she gets pulled away by friends, how can you pitch for her digits and still stay congruent with your meta-frame as being the prize? That's only one possibility but there are many more situations where it would seem that sooner or later, you'd have to come down at least to her level, to make a hookup possible."

R. - Greensboro, NC

My Comments:

I'm glad you're getting a lot out of my material. You've asked some really important questions.

My answers to them might surprise You. But they will help - promise.

Before diving headlong into your questions I'm gonna get people new to my newsletters up to speed by defining the terminology you used.

Prizability

Establishing while interacting with a woman that you're a Prize she wants to win over.

When a woman buys into the reality that you walking away from her or not validating her or not making a sexual pass at her or not paying attention to her would be a loss, you've, my friend, got Prizability.

There's no denying it: looks and money can help establish Prizability with women. But they're not necessary and often times, not enough.

A writer friend of mine told me a story about when Brad Pitt moved to Los Angeles he couldn't get a date. "But," you might be thinking to yourself, "How could Brad Pitt fail to tread above water in the single scene trenches with his superstar good looks?"

Well, because my friend, looks aren't enough. In L.A. beautiful people are a dime a dozen. Back then Mr. Pitt was just some average Joe who probably didn't have the skills to establish Prizability.

Many of the guys I know who are rock stars with women are average looking at best.

Back in high school they couldn't succeed with women solely based on their looks. They had to learn to gain Prizability with women in other ways.

As a result, however, their success with women dwarfs the success of guys who rely solely on their looks.

The Meta-Frame

This is the underlying meaning of your interaction with a woman. If you don't set the Meta-Frame that you are a Prize she wants to win over, you're in big trouble because women feel no attraction toward men who aren't the Prize.

This is a big part of having Prizability with women.

Not knowing how to establish yourself as a Prize women want is letting your reality swindle you out of the success with women you could be having. It's letting reality flog you like a baby mule.

Become, instead, the master of your reality by learning the shortcut secrets for defining the underlying meaning of every interaction you have with a woman as you being the Prize she's
compelled to win over by getting your hands on a copy of my audio course right now.

Prizing

"I need to win a woman over" is an insidious belief that has snaked inside the minds of many a man.

Too many men think that if they were only a bit younger or taller or skinnier or richer or better looking, women they desire would start feeling attraction toward them.

I live in Los Angeles and have witnessed many guys putting themselves through painful plastic surgery, thinking this was their key to attracting women.

But to the horror of their butchered bodies, depleted bank accounts, and incredibly shrinking egos, women didn't even feel a smidgen more attraction toward them.

Attraction is not what women prefer or how they judge you. If it were, most of us men would be royally screwed because...

Women prefer men sporting Kobe Bryant's physique, Johnny Depp's Face, Bill Gates' bank account, Barry White's voice, and Ron Jeremy's schlong.

Most men, alas, aren't all these qualities rolled up into one pretty little package.

But don't start squawking like a bleeding sheep who knows it's time for fleecing and slaughtering. Don't start brooding like a dog at the pound who knows he's about to be put to sleep.

Here's the first slab of hope to brighten up your day...

Now and then some of the qualities women prefer or look for in a man will actually PREVENT them from feeling attraction toward a man.

Most women, for example, would love the idea of a man they just met taking them out shopping. But taking a woman shopping will put any attraction she felt toward you on its deathbed.

The sight of a pussy whipped man taking a woman he's just met shopping, in my opinion, is more grotesque than seeing a baby calf being slaughtered...

Because he's communicating to a woman that he views her as a Prize he wants to win over. He wants her validation and approval. He's trying impress her. The bastard desperately wants her to like him.

This makes him look like a human lapdog. Women are attracted to men who are the Prize, not human lapdogs.

Attraction is not about appealing to what women prefer or about filling the quota for what they judge as attractive in a man.

Attraction is creating an emotional vacuum, compelling women to want and reach and chase for more of You. Doing this is what I call "Prizing."

Do you want dozens of step-by-step examples of Prizing women?

If you answered yes, your in luck because my course is chock full of examples of Prizing women, giving you the tools and confidence togenerate massive attraction inside the women
You desire.

Push-Pull

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you... and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. For a more in depth expanation of push-pull, click here and scroll about a third of the way down. Stop where it says "A few words about Push-Pull."

Moving onto your first question.

You asked: "If you don't close a woman that you've successfully prized the very first time you meet her, how can you pitch for her # or how do you pitch for another encounter without losing your Prizability?"

I've hung out with guys who've gotten insane amounts of numbers over the course of an evening - were talkin' to the tune of ten to fifteen phone numbers.

Many of these guys used some really slick linguistic tricks to coax women into givin' up the digits. But I'm not gonna share these linguistic tricks with you because they won't help. They might even hurt you.

If you've gotta trick a woman into giving you her number, you risk her either giving you a fake or her not returning your phone calls. Either way you're screwed.

Women don't give me fake phone numbers and when I call a women I've just met they're almost always thrilled to hear from me because...

I establish Prizability with a woman before asking for her phone number.

There are exceptions: for example, if I get a woman's number while driving I don't have a lot of time to establish Prizability with her.

For situations where you've only got a few seconds to get their number, try to do or say something to establish that you're the Prize in the interaction.

Generally speaking, however, it's best to spend a minimum of five to fifteen minutes establishing Prizability with a woman before going in for the phone number.

I usually get women to the point that they're hoping I'm going to ask for their number.

Sometimes they get worried that I won't ask for their number and get up the gall to give me their digits without me ever asking.

"How can you tell when a woman wants you to ask for her number?" you might be wondering.

You don't need to brood and bitch and fondle your crystal ball to know when a woman wants you to ask for her number.

What you need is experience. The more experience you get, the stronger your intuition becomes.

Also - I'm working on a product where I break down step-by-step the subtle behaviors women display when they want you to ask for their number.

When I know I've got enough Prizability with a woman I'll say, "You seem like a cool girl. Write down your number... and maybe we'll hang out."

Notice, I'm not really asking for her number.

I'm, instead, giving her an opportunity to give me her number.

This gives her a glimmer of hope that I might be interested yet
maintains the meta-frame: I'm the Prize she wants to win over.

If you use this line before you've got genuine Prizability with a woman, it's just a slick linguistic trick and, thus, your results will be helter-skelter at best.

There are very few external barriers that stop women from giving you their number when you've got sufficient Prizability and given her an opportunity to give you her number.

So, for example, if a girl is being dragged away by her friends but you've got Prizability and given her an opportunity to give you her number, she'll almost always give you her digits.

Before I let you go, here's one more tip...

I've heard many dating experts claim that beautiful women give their numbers out to heaps of men and, thus, according to these dating experts, when calling a woman it is imperative to state your name and the place you met her. If not, you risk awkwardness at best and the woman hanging up on you at worst.

This is only a half truth. Many a woman gives her phone number to truckloads of men.

But saying, to give you an example of what not to do, "Hello. This is Bill. You are very attractive and probably have a lot of men calling you. So to refresh your memory, I met you at the Saddle Ranch bar on Thursday the twenty-second of April at around 10:34 PM." is like playing Russian roulette on your balls
because...

It communicates to her that you think she's got so many guys calling her that if you don't explain who you are she won't remember you.

It establishes the meta-frame that she's the Prize you are trying to win over. Bad thing! Women feel no attraction toward men who aren't the Prize.

When giving a woman a ring, always assume she knows who you are.

Before calling a woman I always think to myself: "Poor girl. Most likely, I'm her only friend. She's probably been sitting by the phone all week waiting for that phone call from ME!!"

Warning: Sometimes women genuinely won't remember you.

They might even ask your name or where you met them.

Should you tell them?

No No No!! This makes it too easy. Make 'em remember on their own. Maybe give 'em a few bread crumbs, leading them in the right direction.

Maybe bring up something from your first interaction with her: a joke of yours she laughed at, a subject you connected with her on, an interesting conversation you had with her... and so on.

Hint: It's gotta be something that left an impression on her. That even if she's lumbered with an IQ barely into the double digits, she couldn't forget.

So, for example, when getting a woman's number I'll occasionally tell them to draw a picture of themselves so I can remember them.

Then, when I talk to them on the phone, I'll ignore all the questions they ask me about my name and where they met me.

I might, for example, say, "I'd date You... but only if your eyelashes were a little longer on the picture you drew of yourself."

At this point they usually start giggling and excitedly say, "I know who you are!"

I've used this with women whose numbers I got two or three months ago but didn't make the effort to call them back. And using this they remembered me.

This works because if a woman doesn't recognize You, you're making her earn the right to remember. Instead of telling her who you are, you're leaving her bread crumbs, forcing her to figure it out on her own.

This sets the meta-frame that you're the Prize she wants
to win over.

Unfortunately, this only scratches the surface of Prizability and Prizing women.

But if you want to get your hands on a world class education, giving you the confidence and tools to generate massive attraction in the women you desire, making them want and reach and chase for more of you, get yourself a copy of
my course today.

The good news for you is that I've put all of the secrets to Prizability and Prizing I've discovered from countless hours of trial and error into an audio course.

You'll get a complete education on attracting women where many men just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to consistently approach, engage, attract, and become intimate with the women they desire.

I'm so confident that you're going to absolutely love my course that I'm gonna let you test drive it free of charge.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

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Do You Know How Far The Average Man Gets With A Woman?

Not far at all.

Let's take a bar or a nightclub, for example.

Many a man's success at a bar is no better than brief conversations with three or four women, all of which materialize into zilch.

When the average collective male gets a woman's digits, locks lips with a stranger, or pulls a female from the bar to his
bedroom, he thinks to himself, "I got lucky," because it doesn't happen to him often.

Before revealing one the most mutilating mistakes 90% of men make with women, I want to let you in on a secret that dawned on me a few years back.

And contained within the words you're about to read is one of the biggest – if not the biggest – keys to succeeding with women.

When a successful ladies man approaches a woman lumbered with a wretched heart and she proverbially mauls him with the words, “Get lost loser!” things usually take a bazaar turn for the better.

Within minutes, the ice queen is laughing and flirting and putting her little paws all over him.

What's goin' on here? What's up with the sudden and drastic shift in attitude? Does he possess some secret pickup line?

Perhaps.

But… something more subtle is taking place.

If a woman, for example, hisses a crippling putdown, he doesn't pelt away wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.

He, instead, charges forward like a vicious bulldog unscathed by her less than flattering words.

“What allows him to lope forward?” you may be wondering.

Here's a story that might shed some light…

Once thought impossible, in 1985 Ted Arcidi bench pressed over 700 pounds. Others followed, and benching 700 plus lb. became a difficult yet achievable feat for a lifter.

Yet from 1985 to 2002 the collective lifter believed the human body wasn't capable of enduring an 800 lb. bench press.

Then in 2002 Ryan Kennelly shattered that theory by benching over 800.

But here's what's eerie…

The number of men currently benching 800 plus pounds hovers into the double digits.

Some say this progress is due to lifters wearing super-shirts, which, supposedly, help bounce the weight off their chest.

This might be part of it. But there's another key ingredient – one that relates to attracting women.

Here's a hint…

Think of your favorite sport: football, baseball, gymnastics, boxing… and so on, for example.

Within that sport at some point in time there was at least one barrier athletes believed impossible to break.

But then, eventually, an athlete blasted the barrier to smithereens followed by a barrage of other athletes annihilating the barrier too.

Here's my point…

By Ryan Kennelly doing the impossible - benching 800 pounds - he broke a mental barrier in the minds of many a power lifter. That's why so many athletes followed Ryan in breaking the 800 lb mark.

When It Comes To Attracting Women Many Guys Have Mental Barriers.

When a woman barks, “I'm not interested!” or chirps “scat loser!” or hisses “I wouldn't do you if you were the last man on earth!” most men feel succeeding with her is an impossible uphill battle.

But the ladies man doesn't just think success with her is possible; he thinks it's highly probable. He isn't burdened with the mental barriers of most men because success for him is normal.

Here's a big secret about women…

Almost always, how a woman responds to a man is corollary to how she assumes other women respond to him.

As Soon As A Woman Senses That It's Normal For Him to Succeed With Women, She Begins Perceiving Him As A Prize She's Compelled To Possess!

That's why the ladies man can go from being verbally assaulted by a rhymes-with-witch to making out with her a few minutes later.

You might be thinking: “Having no mental barriers is great and all. But I have them. Most people have them. And how in the world is success going to be normal for me if I haven't had much of it?”

The Biggest Key To Smashing Mental Barriers & Making Success Your Normal, Everyday Reality Is Pushing Your Comfort Zone.

The biggest mistake men make, holding them back from heaps of success with women, is not pushing their comfort zone.

We all have a different comfort zone.

Perhaps just looking a woman in the eyes or saying “hi” to her is a big feat?

Maybe you feel comfortable starting conversations with women but the idea of kissing a woman a few minutes after meeting her makes you a bit queasy?

Whatever your comfort zone is, you probably could benefit from expanding it. We all could.

Here's how I took my comfort zone from very small to mammoth in size...

Years ago I was painfully shy. Even the thought of approaching female strangers made me shudder with fear.

So I set a goal for myself of looking three women in the eye and saying “hi." This was so far out of my comfort zone it took me twelve hours to complete. But I made myself do it.

Soon my comfort level grew and saying “hi” to three women became no big deal.

My next objective was to say “hi” to ten women in a single day. This was quite a feat but I did it.

Then my mission was to actually engage a woman in a conversation. Scary stuff for me but sooner than later, the mission was accomplished

After that, I set a goal of approaching three different women and engaging them in conversation over the course of a single evening. Then five. Then eight. Then twelve.

My next ambition was to rub a woman's back minutes after meeting her. Strange, I know. But I knew a ladies man from high school who used to do this. It blew my mind. I wanted to be able to do what he did.

Soon this became well within my comfort zone and I found myself always giving women I'd just met back rubs.

Then my objective was to… gulp… kiss a woman I'd only known for a few minutes. I kept practicing this until it became the norm for me.

Then one night I was out with a friend of mine who witnessed me kiss six women that night. He was blown away and inquired, “Did you get their phone numbers?”

But the sad reality was...

I Didn't Even Get One Of Their Numbers!

Back then it seemed weird and felt uncomfortable asking for a woman's phone number – even when I'd already kissed her.

But I pushed my comfort zone, and started asking for women's phone numbers. I got really good and accrued a pile full of numbers. Yet I was petrified to call any of the numbers.

I forced myself, though, to call two numbers a day. And soon I mastered talking to women on the phone and setting up a time to meet.

Next I learned how to take them back to my house and get intimate with them. And the story goes on.

Here's my point…

I didn't attempt in one night to go from barely feeling comfortable muttering “hi” to the opposite sex to confidently planting a kiss on a woman within the first few minutes of meeting her.

I took it one step at a time.

I did what the Japanese call “kaizen,” which means incremental improvement. Each day I'd push my comfort zone a tiny bit. Over the course of a few months I achieved massive improvement.

But there's one thing I haven't mentioned and want to come clean about…

When I was starting out I didn't have a mentor who'd figured out all of the pieces to attracting and succeeding with women.

Not only did I have the challenge of pushing my comfort zone, but also had to figure out on my own the best ways to progress from one step to the next with women.

If I'd known then what I know now, I would have gotten where I wanted to be in a fraction of the time.

The good news for you is that I've put all of the secrets I've discovered from countless hours of trial and error into an audio course.

You'll get a complete education on attracting women where many men just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to consistently approach, engage, attract, and become intimate with the women they desire.

I'm so confident that you're going to absolutely love my course that I'm gonna let you test drive it free of charge.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

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How An Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things

How An Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things
With A Very Beautiful Woman...
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Hey Guys,

A while back someone emailed me a great success
story. I saved it on my computer and forgot
about it. Last week I was going through my
computer and found it. I thought, "Wow! - this
is a really great story," and was planning on
using it in my last newsletter. But, then, as I
was reading through it, I thought to myself,
"there is so much good stuff going on here, I
could do a whole newsletter on it." And that's
exactly what I'm doing. Enjoy!


"Hey Swinggcat! There once was a time when I
would walk into a bar, look at all the beautiful
women having fun with guys who were NOT me, and
get depressed. So I'd start drinking, and that
would only make me more depressed. Eventually
I'd go home alone, hating the world, hating
women, and most of all, hating myself for not
even TRYING to have fun.

Bars and clubs can be an intimidating
environment. Until recently, it wasn't in my
reality to believe that I could actually make
out with a girl in either location. Sure, I'd
seen guys do it before, but to think that *I*
could was just beyond any logical reasoning
my mind could grasp.

But in reading through Swinggcat's book, there
was a chapter that really stuck out at me. That
was the chapter on FRAMES. As Swinggcat defines
it, a frame determines the underlying meaning of
behaviors and actions.

I've found this is a *key* concept in
understanding any interaction with women.

When you enter a situation you may feel
uncomfortable with, the natural inclination is
to be overwhelmed by the FRAME your environment
presents. If you allow this to happen, you
effectively give up any control over your
behaviors and actions. This is the worst
possible thing you can do if you are hoping to
meet the girl of your dreams. Controlling your
FRAME, and setting the right FRAME, as opposed
to adopting the FRAMES presented to you, is the
most powerful tool there is in getting a woman.

Allow me to demonstrate what I mean.

I was recently in a very trendy club in
Los Angeles. It was the kind with some low
level celebrities, some incredibly beautiful
women, some incredibly rich men, sexy go-go
dancers swinging around on poles, trendy techno
music, and tastefully pornographic movies
projected on the walls. In short: IT WAS THE
MOST INTIMIDATING ENVIRONMENT KNOWN TO MAN!

So there I am, a guy who's about 50 lbs.
overweight, who's bald, and who makes $30 Grand
a year, hob-knobbing with models and porno
stars. And wouldn't you know it, the same
feeling I got when I went to a bar in the past
began to creep up on me. But because I
was able to understand the concept of
controlling my FRAME, I was able to do
something amazing.

I set the frame that I'm having a good time,
that all the girls in the club liked me, and
that I was going to have fun with them.
Before long, I found myself in a conversation
with a beautiful girl who is a model. In fact,
she told me she's going to be on the next
season of "America's Next Top Model."
Because I approached her with a strong frame
of having fun and that I was the PRIZE, she
was very responsive to me. She eventually got
dragged away by some friends (as is apt to
happen in clubs). But later on, I saw her
talking to a group of guys who were obviously
trying to hit on her.

But because my frame was so strong, I walked up
to the group, took her by the hand, and
literally LEAD her onto the dance floor, away
from all the moes she was talking to, who
watched in stunned silence and a poor, bald,
fat guy grinded away with this amazing girl in
front of them. And not only that - SHE WAS
INTO IT!

So there I am, body pressed up against this
girl, having the best time in the world, and I
think to myself "I should make out with
her!"

So I did. I grabbed her and planted one right
on her lips. And not only did she react well,
but she reciprocated! Before long, our tongues
were in a fencing match with each other, and I
was the envy of about 78% of the club. It was
a reality shattering experience for me, because
until that point, the only place I'd ever made
out with a girl was either in my car or in
the bedroom after about 3 or 4 dates.

So what was different? The answer: My Frame!
I set the frame where I was the PRIZE, where she
was trying to win ME over, andwhere she wants
me so bad that she WANTED to make-out with me.
And because I set the strong frame, the model I
was with WENT ALONG WITH IT! Now, I can now go
into a club without that sinking feeling of
depression dragging me down, because I know it
is possible to not only have fun, but to meet
any girl I want and make-out with her! You
just gotta have the right frame.

Thanks Swinggcat!"
- M from Pasadena

My response:

Damn! - talk about a geek to sheik story. This
guy went from "classified gimp" to "certified
pimp." What was is it that allowed him to do
this? The sole enabling factor was this: He
understood the power of ESTABLISHING himself as
the PRIZE when interacting with women. In my
book I call this PRIZABILITY.

As those of you who have been following my
newsletters and have read my book know:
ATTRACTION is not what a woman prefers.
ATTRACTION is creating the emotion inside a
woman of wanting, reaching for more of you.
The art of creating this emotion inside
women is what call PRIZING.

You cannot, however, create the emotion in a
woman of her wanting and reaching for more of
you if she does not perceive you as being
the PRIZE. Put in other words, before you can
ATTRACT her, you need to set the groundwork
that you are the PRIZE. You can't make a
woman want more of you if she does not view
you as having any perceived value.

Even having good looks and lots of money, in and
of themselves, doesn't necessarily suffice in
establishing that you are the PRIZE
with women.

A more efficient way of ESTABLISHING yourself
as the PRIZE is through developing specific
social skills. Learning to, for example, tell
stories, cold read, be intriguing, develop
your sense of humor...and so on. I do all of these
things, and, in fact, I teach them in my book.

http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?.tus2vztTAITPwnbuaSR0Q

The most powerful way, however, to establish
PRIZABILITY is to ALWAYS define the underlying
meaning of your interactions with women as you
being the one who is the PRIZE. In my book I
call this the META-FRAME.

In fact, all of the other methods for
establishing PRIZABILITY - such as, telling
stories, cold reading, being intriguing, saying
something funny...and so on - only work in
conjunction with you defining the META-FRAME
as you being the PRIZE.

If you are doing a bunch of things to try to
ESTABLISH your PRIZABILITY with a woman - such
as, story telling and acting funny - but you are
not defining the underlying meaning of your
interaction with her as you being the one who is
the PRIZE, you will, unknowingly, establish
negative PRIZABILITY.

Put in other words, doing or saying things to
increase your PRIZABILTY within the context - or
META-FRAME - of you not being the PRIZE will
inevitably make you look needy, pathetic, and
desperate.

Before learning anything else about dating or
ATTRACTING women, you need to know how to
ESTABLISH the META-FRAME that you are the PRIZE
in the interaction. Even if you have all of the
social skills in the world, without knowing how
to set the META-FRAME your skills are worthless
when comes to ATTRACTING women. If you do not yet
have a handle on this, you need to read my book:

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When you are fat, bald, and broke, like M from
Pasadena, a woman's default assumption is
probably going to be that you are not the
PRIZE. To make matters worse, your default
assumption about yourself might be that you
aren't the PRIZE.

As M from Pasadena tells us: "When you enter a
situation you may feel uncomfortable with, the
natural inclination is to be overwhelmed by the
FRAME your environment presents. If you allow
this to happen, you effectively give up any
control over your behaviors and actions. This
is the worst possible thing you can do
if you are hoping to meet the girl of your
dreams. Controlling your FRAME, and setting the
right FRAME, as opposed to adopting the FRAMES
presented to you, is the most powerful tool
there is in getting a woman."

M refuses to allow society, his environment, and
the people he is around to dictate his FRAME and
META-FRAME.

Just doing this can establish PRIZABILITY because
it conveys to women that you are in control of
your power, have a strong sense of self, and have
an unswayable REALITY. These are all qualities
women find PRIZABLE in men.

M continues: "I set the frame where I was the
PRIZE, where she was trying to win ME over, and
where she wants me so bad that she WANTED to
make-out with me. And because I set the strong
frame, the model I was with WENT ALONG WITH IT!
Now, I can now go into a club without that
sinking feeling of depression dragging me down,
because I know it is possible to not only have
fun, but to meet any girl I want and make-out
with her! You just gotta have the right
frame."

Let's remember, he didn't play tonsil hockey with
just any girl, he did it with a woman who is going
to be on the next season of "America's Next Top
Model." And he was able to do this in spite of
being fat, bald, and broke - all because he
established the META-FRAME that he is the PRIZE.


When you ASSUME that you have perceived value,
and KNOW how to establish the META-FRAME that
you are the PRIZE, women will see you as a PRIZE
they want to win over - and it doesn't matter if
you're fat, or bald or broke...or whatever. If,
however, you are good looking and rich yet do not
have the skill set for establishing the
META-FRAME that you are the PRIZE, your success
with women will be mediocre at best. That's how
important the META-FRAME is. With some guys, it
almost seems like they were born with it. Not me.
I had to learn how to establish the META-FRAME
through a lot of experimenting and hard work. If
you want to save yourself truck loads of time,
start learning to establish the META-FRAME with
every woman you interact with by downloading my
book today. Just think what it will be like to
finally have the skills and confidence to plop
your butt in the driver's seat while interacting
with women, giving you the power and choice to
take your interactions with them in the direction
you want. My book is the only place you can
learn this information. Start getting this area
of your life taken care of right now by
downloading my book.

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Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"


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to ask, or a comment you would like to make,
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you know! Oh, and be sure not to just hit
"reply" to this email, because I won't get
it!

Thanks!

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A Largely Unknown Secret For Having

A Largely Unknown Secret For Having
Threesomes...And Other Powerful Tools
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Hey guys,

If you have been following my newsletters you
probably have noticed that I have been revealing
some big pieces to the puzzle on generating
ATTRACTION in women. Today I am going to share
with you something that most guys - even guys
who are good with women - don't consciously
know. Knowing this secret could very well sky
rocket your success with women.

Before moving on to this secret, I am going to
review some basics. As you probably know if you
have read my book and been reading my
newsletters, ATTRACTION is not what women
prefer. The collective female prefers a baby
faced, tall muscular man, blessed with a
monster sized sausage and a tongue with a
gifted touch. Why do you think boy bands rake
in so much cash? Hello!! - this is what women
prefer. This, however, is not what ATTRACTION
is.

ATTRACTION is what you do to a woman's mind and
body. The "body" part is creating the emotion
inside her of wanting and reaching for more of
you, which in my book I call PRIZING. The "mind"
part is you establishing that you are the PRIZE
to be won over, which in my book I call
PRIZABILITY.

Before you can start PRIZING a woman -
generating inside her the emotion of wanting,
reaching, and chasing for more of you - you
must establish PRIZABILITY.

A powerful method for establishing PRIZABILITY
with a woman is conveying that you are of
slightly higher perceived value than her.
Higher perceived value means: her believing that
she has more to gain from you than you do from
her. Am I saying that you should establish this
through promising expensive gifts and buying her
lots of overpriced drinks? No!! Doing this would
only establish that you are her human ATM machine.
Bad thing!

Am I suggesting that you establish PRIZABILITY
by treating her like a jerk? Not at all!

Establishing higher perceived value is about
you conveying to her that she has more to gain
from you than you do from her because of
who you are.

Establishing PRIZABILITY - establishing that you
are the PRIZE - sets the groundwork for
generating ATTRACTION with a woman. If you
currently are not as good as you could be at
establishing PRIZABILITY you need to get my book
today. By not having mastered this skill, you
are cheating yourself out of a lot of success
with women. My book goes into painstaking detail
on exactly what steps you need to take to
consistently establish PRIZABILITY with women.
Start mastering the art of PRIZABILITY now by
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Another key concept for generating massive
ATTRACTION with women is having a strong intent.
Having a strong intent is having the DESIRE and
the WILL to do what needs to be done to achieve
a particular outcome, coupled with the unwavering
belief that you will achieve this intended outcome.

If a person has the DESIRE and the WILL to do what
needs to be done to succeed with a woman but does
not have the BELIEF that he can, he will come
across as needy. If you do not yet have a strong
intent, reread my article "Demystifying Charisma,"
and reread the chapter in my book on beliefs.

Okay, we got the basics out of the way. Now for
the secret most guys DON'T KNOW. But first, I am
going to tell you how I discovered this secret.
Around three years ago while hanging out at a
bookstore I met a woman lumbered with one of the
most spectacular bodies I have ever seen. She,
furthermore, happened to be bisexual and into
having threesomes!! Her and I really hit it off,
and ended up having sex in the bookstore's parking
lot. Afterwards, I tried coaxing her into having
a threesome with me. She, alas, resisted. This
frustrated me and I sought advice. One guy gave me
some golden advice.

To paraphrase his words, "One of the worst things
you can do when trying to get a woman to have a
threesome with you is ASSUMING that it is a big
deal. Instead assume it is NO BIG DEAL, and a lot
of fun. Pitch the idea to her the same way, for
example, you would suggest that it would be fun
for the two of you to get ice cream."

These words apply to more than having threesomes
with women. Whatever your intended outcome with
a woman is - whether it is, for example, getting
her number, getting her to go on a date with you,
or getting her back to your house - ASSUME IT'S
NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of fun.

Women are like professional psychics when it comes
to picking up on when MEN ASSUME that something is
a big deal. Even if we don't explicitly communicate
that we think something is a big deal, women
somehow always intuitively know. I have a female
friend of mine who told me that she always knows
when a guy is scared to kiss her. "When a man thinks
it is a big deal to kiss a girl he unconsciously
displays all sorts of nervous and indecisive body
movements conveying his fear," she told me.

Assuming that something is a big deal can stifle
your chances of achieving your intended outcome in
two ways.

One is that by doing this you are lowering your
perceived value in her eyes. She will stop seeing
you as a PRIZE to be won over. When you ASSUME,
for example, that it is a really big deal to ask
for a girl's number, it conveys to her that she
is of higher of value than you. By doing this you
are, unknowingly, ESTABLISHING that she
is the PRIZE to be won over, not you.

Two is that when women intuit you assuming that
something is a big deal, they begin to believe it
is a big deal as well. How women feel about doing
something with you is oftentimes a mirror image of
how you feel about doing something with them. If
you are nervous, they will become nervous too. If
you, for example, ASSUME getting a woman to go out
with you is a big deal, she will pick up on your
nervous energy and feel the same way.

When you, however, ASSUME that achieving your
intended outcome with a woman is NO BIG DEAL, your
perceived value in her eyes will increase.
Furthermore, ASSUMING that your intended outcome
is NO BIG DEAL will often times put a woman at ease
making her assume that your intended outcome is no
big deal. When you have perceived value in a
woman's eyes and she construes your intended
outcome as no big deal, it makes it very easy to
get what you want.

There have been women I have slept with after only
knowing them for a short amount of time - in some
cases, as short as twenty five minutes! I was able
to do this because I ASSUMED it was no big
deal, and a lot of fun.

Also, if a woman puts up resistance when trying to
kiss her, DON'T become distraught. Instead, keep
your composure by ASSUMING it to be no big deal.
Then, try again a few minutes later using my
physical push-pull technique from my book.

Of course having the mindset that achieving your
intended outcome is no big deal is easier to
achieve if you have the skill sets for both
establishing yourself as the PRIZE and creating
the emotion inside a woman of her wanting,
reaching, chasing for more of you. As far as I
know, my book is the only available material that
goes into extreme depth, breaking down these skill
sets into a step-by-step easy to learn system.
Start living the life you deserve by picking up a
copy of Real World Seduction today:

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Swinggcat responding to emails:

Comment:

Hey, thanks for the ebook...and I'm f***ing
serious. I'm loving what you have to say in your
book man. $40 was well worth it and I'm only on
the beliefs section. I've been going about
figuring this stuff out on my own for years and
have definitely started formulating the ideas
that you're talking about in the book but you
have just fucking put it all out there crystal
clear. Thanks.

J from NY

My response:

Thanks man! If you are finding my book useful,
then you will definitely enjoy some of the
products I will be releasing in the near future.
This stuff is going to be the next level. Once
again, thanks for the praise.

Question:

I would like to go out with this chick but I have
a problem. I know her too much from her family and
her current boyfriend, etc. so even if I make a
move on her she just takes it in a friendly way
now I'm confused coz I love her and I don't wanna
let go.

B from South Africa

My response:

By you putting all of your focus of attention on
this one special girl, my friend, you are putting
a lot of importance on your intended outcome. Most
likely this mindset will push her away from you.
Putting this much importance on a girl you have
not even slept with will lower your perceived
value. Put in other words, she will not see you as
the PRIZE. And as you know if you have read my book,
women are ATTRACTED to men who are the PRIZE. Your
best chance of ATTRACTING her is for you to stop
making her your world. Go out and live your life.
I don't believe there is only one ideal person for
us; I think there are many. I know, however, when
we really like someone it can feel that way - I've
been there before. If you go out and start meeting
other women, you will open yourself up to all
sorts of wonderful opportunities. Not only will you
be a happier person for doing this, but you will stop
appearing so needy to this girl.

Comment:

I have to say that I have been applying some of your
techniques - mainly cold readings and chicks love this.
So much so that I was invited to the home of one hottie
simply after doing a cold reading - I told her "you seem
like a woman at a crossroads in life, there is a part of
you that wants and needs to let go, yet you know that it
has to be with the right person." It works like magic. I
had an msn thread that I was going to send you but I lost
where I was doing this to this one hottie and she was
literally melting with desire. The push pull technique
also works extremely well. Good work man

M from Canada

My response:

Awesome man. I think cold reading is a great way of
establishing PRIZABILITY with a woman. This sets the
groundwork for PRIZING: generating the emotion inside
a woman of wanting, reaching, and chasing for more
of you. Good job.

Question:

Hi

I would like to ask you how to make a chick to be
attracted. How can I get her address and phone number
in 3 min? What can I talk to her about? What should
and shouldn't I say?

Igor from Chicago

My response:

I am not getting the impression you have read
Real World Seduction, my man! Do yourself a favor
and pick up a copy.

http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?bGi_y422q_TgPhA.wi4wLA

Comments:

Man, I've been absorbing attraction information for
the past 12months, reading and listening to everything
that's available on the net, and nobody, f***ing NOBODY
- explained this sh*t so divinely as you did.

I'm referring to STEP 1 'Defining the meta frame'

I felt it on the inside, this shift, this huge fucking
shift and it drew up this visual in my mind, and I saw
it all so clearly. And suddenly I get this stuff so
much deeper now

Thank you.

D from United Kingdom

My Response:

Right on man! I know from experience that when a person
begins having clarity and understanding of the skills
needed to ATTRACT women, his confidence and success
skyrocket. If you do not yet have the clarity and
understanding of the skills needed to generate massive
ATTRACTION in women, allowing you to harbor the
confidence and experience the success only a handful
of men have, pick up a copy of my book today.

http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?bGi_y422q_TgPhA.wi4wLA

Your Loyal Dating Coach

Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"



P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to
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comment you would like to make, please email me at:

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know! Oh, and be sure not to just hit "reply" to
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Thanks!

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