Is It Possible To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back?

Is It Possible To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back? Question from a reader Is it possible to get an ex girlfriend back? I’ve been with my ex-girlfriend for almost eight years. During that time, I know she was sick of me and I could see it in her eyes. The entire time I was with her I would do whatever she asked me to. Put it this way, I was like a dog that chased after a ball every time she said fetch. I don't want that to happen all my life. I want her to chase after the ball too. But she never listens to me and it's all about her every time. We’ve been broken up for about four months or so. At first, she wanted to be friends with benefits. I kinda like friends with benefits because benefits means sex. But I want to fix our breakup to makeup. Now there's no friends with benefit anymore. Because she found someone to talk to and I'm very lonely. She is seeing this guy and I believe dating as well, but not in a relationship. So I think I still have a chance. I don't know what I'm going to do now. But what is more messed up is she is living in my second house that she is renting and she is on my T-Mobile plan too. I have to go to her house once a month to pick up the rent. I don't know what I'm going to do when I see her. She told me before when we broke up that she’d feel no jealousy if she saw me with another woman. Another words, she’s the man in the relationship and I'm the girl. How messed up is that... very messed up huh!!! I've been thinking a lot about a plan to win her over me. I would start off buying your program and read inch by inch and page after page. Once that's done, I will start fixing up myself and go to Clubs to test out your course. If that works then the next time I go to my ex-girlfriend’s house I'll bring a beautiful girl to pick up the rent for me. Then I will use your skills and techniques to make her want me more and more... so that she will keep thinking about me over and over and over again. Is your method powerful enough to win my ex-girlfriend over, so that she will chase after me for now on? What worries me is how my ex-girlfriend is doing right now and if I still have a chance getting her back. Please help me Swinggcat, I need your help and your advice. I know you have changed peoples lives. I hope your will change mine. Once again, Thank You!!! Your Friend, Mark S. - From North Hollywood, California Mark, buddy, I’m gonna bust your chops because I’ve sat in the same miserable prison cell you’re sitting in right now. Even though it is damn painful to lose the love of your life, you need a good kick in the ass – trust me. Getting dumped sucks. A gut level response is to scheme up a master plan that makes her fall in love with you all over again. Like a baby aspirin, it prevents your jealous heart from exploding. Been there, done that. I could give you word-for-word lines that would pump her groin full of lust. But I’m not, buddy. Because here’s what would happen… She’d throw you a bone, a minute of her oh-so-valuable time, and you’d pounce forward like the little trained golden retriever you are. Any attraction the techniques triggered inside her would wither to a suicidal gloom. Without a key ingredient, you’re rigged to lose, my man. In a minute, you’ll know what this ingredient is and how to get your hands on it. But first… I wanna feed your noggin some food for thought… What’s the difference between putting $5000.00 in front of a degenerate gambler in debt and a guy who’s got his shit together. For the man in debt, his desire for the money comes from a place of necessity. If he doesn’t pay the debt, a bookie may crack his kneecaps. In plain English, he needs that moolah – badly. But for Mr. Moneybags, it’s a completely different story. Getting his paws on 5,000 big ones isn’t a necessity. His life will be just fine without it. Instead, his desire for the money stems from a place of possibility. There’s a whole slew of possible things he could do with five G's: take a trip to Hawaii, purchase a new stereo system, buy a kick-ass wardrobe, or invest in a new computer. One more time: the degenerate’s desire comes from a place of need and necessity… the rich guy’s desire comes from a place of possibility. Hmm…. You get where I’m going with this? Similar to the degenerate gambler who’s one poker hand away from losing his kneecaps, you’re coming from a place of necessity with this girl. I want you to do a simple exercise… Take a moment to imagine your attention, affection, and love being a necessity in this girl’s life. If you don’t give her your attention and show her that you’re attracted to her 24-7, her universe crumbles. Visualize her arm clinging to yours at every moment. Her wanting to spend every waking second with you – even when you’re taking a dump. Picture a furrow cutting between her eyebrows anytime a woman looks in your direction. Draw a portrait in your mind of your girlfriend’s eyes seething with jealousy anytime a female’s shoulder grazes against yours in a crowded elevator. This may be flattering – and a little comforting – at first. But after a while, it will reduce any attraction you feel for her to a crippling zero. I’ve got some homework for you… Go rent the movie Swingers. If you’ve already seen it, watch it again. It will be a great refresher course. The movie is about a guy named Mike whose girlfriend leaves him for another man. The first half of the movie is about him moping around and fretting over how life is miserable without his girlfriend. His desire for his ex comes from a place of necessity. Although a tough slog, he muscles himself out of the house and into the single scene trenches. By the end of the movie, he meets a great girl. You can probably guess what happens. His desire for his ex girlfriend ceases to come from a place of necessity. As soon as this shift occurs, his ex calls him, wanting to get back together. It’s weird… but more often than not, ex girlfriends psychically know when your desire for them switches from necessity to possibility. That’s the turning point when they’ll usually want you back. Ironically, your desire for having them back in your life will no longer come from a place of necessity. You may not even want them at all. Perhaps you’re wondering, “How in the world do I switch from necessity to possibility?” By expanding your possibilities with other great women. If a handful of great women feel a yen to be with you, you’ll come from a place of power and choice. Instead of needing your ex, she’ll be just one of several possible girls you have the power to choose from. Of course, if you don’t sport the tools to quickly spark attraction, succeeding with other women is a mountain of difficulty. I should know… I can remember years ago being dumped and feeling powerless to get back in the game because I didn’t have a clue how to attract women. That’s why I’ve spent the last decade creating a simple method for triggering deep level attraction in women without having to rely on looks, money… or any of the other nonsense most men think you need to succeed with women. Whether your single or in a committed relationship, armed with this attraction method your desire for a woman will always come from a place of possibility, power, and choice. If you'd like a PHD education on this attraction method, I highly recommend you check out my brand-spanking-new Sexual Connections course. In fact, I'm so confident my course is going to transform your dating life style, I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want. Click here to reserve your copy right now. And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach. Your Loyal Dating Coach, P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in. P.P.S.-If you've got a billing question please email: support@realworldseduction.com Copyright 2008 Superior Living, Inc. All rightsreserved."Swinggcat" and "RealWorldSeduction" and "Push-Pull "are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.

How To Approach A Woman On The Dance Floor Without Having To Dance With Her

How To Approach A Woman On The Dance Floor Without Having To Dance With Her Just about every day I receive an email from a frustrated guy wanting to know how to meet and attract a woman on the dance floor without having to dance with her. Here’s why… The majority of these guys: 1). Are aware that most attractive women at bars and nightclubs spend the lion's share of their night on the dance floor. 2). Know that the dance floor is a terrible place to have a conversation with a woman. To make matters worse, these guys may hate to dance. A few years back, asking me how to work the dance floor would have been like a calculus student asking Forrest Gump to help him with his homework. I used to avoid the dance floor like housecats avoid water. That’s because I’ve got the rhythm of a baboon on acid. But recently I’ve discovered ways to meet and attract women on the dance floor without sporting any Rico Suave moves. Even cooler… One night after quaffing down a few too many drinks (actually enough to send a swerving alcoholic off the road), I had a spark of genius. Usually alcohol kills brain cells but this was an exception. I came up with a technique for meeting women on the dance floor without having to dance. Stand at the edge of the dance floor. Spot a woman you fancy. To the music, start bumping your butt against the butt against hers. (Though it might shock you, most women will start bumping butts with you.) Then spin her around and pull her off the dance floor or towards an adjacent bar. Congratulations. You’ve proven you’re a cool guy by busting out two dance moves: the butt bump and the spin. Yet you’ve accomplished this without really dancing with her. Plus you have pulled her off the dance floor where you can engage her in conversation and spark attraction. This should take no more than 45 seconds. Small Caveat: Quickly spark attraction or she’ll go back to the dance floor. You might be thinking, “ Quickly spark attraction? That’s a piece a cake if you’re under 25, hover above 6'2", and have a super model mug. If you're lacking in any of these departments, you're shit out of luck.” Years ago, I had these thoughts too. And without the right tools, there’s a lot of truth to them. Quick reality check: I’m a very average looking guy. Many of the women I meet are over a decade younger than me. But I can effortlessly trigger attraction in them seconds after meeting them. That’s because I’m equipped with the right tools. These tools give you the power to bypass her critical factor, trigger colossal amounts of attraction inside her, and tap into neurological structures in her brain that compel her to act on that arousal. Unfortunately, I didn’t have someone to teach me these secrets. I had to put in years of hard work to discover them. You, my friend, are in luck because I’ve created an audio course called Sexual Connections where you’ll get your hands on these secrets and develop the power to quickly trigger attraction in women seconds after meeting them – even if they’re out of your league. I might not know you personally. But I do know... You want more success with women. Otherwise you wouldn't have read this far. Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of Sexual Connections right now. You deserve it. In fact, I'm so confident my course is going to transform your dating life style, I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want. Click here to reserve your copy right now. And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach. Your Loyal Dating Coach, P.S-.If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in. P.P.S-.If you've got a billing question please email: support@realworldseduction.com Copyright 2008 Superior Living, Inc. All rights reserved."Swinggcat" and "RealWorldSeduction" and "Push-Pull "are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.

Secret Psychology For Compelling A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go.

Secret Psychology For Compelling A Woman To Stay After She Says She Has To Go. When most men are talking to a woman and she chirps “I've gotta go,” they take it as a threat that she's about to leave. They'll either beg her to stay or let her walk away because… They think she isn't kidding about leaving. But I've got news for you, my friend… 95% of the time it's easier than tying your shoe to get a woman to stay – even when she tells you, “I need to leave, now!” And in a minute I'm gonna share with you a secret for taking a woman's words “I gotta go” and using them to both emotionally compel her to stay and generate heaps of attraction inside her. But first, let's review the intention behind a woman's words “I gotta go.” Sometimes a woman's words “I gotta go” match her intentions. That's a given. Maybe you genuinely pissed her off and she wants to leave. Perhaps there was an awkward lull in the conversation, making her feel uncomfortable. So leaving, to her, seems like the best way to kill the tension. Maybe she legitimately has somewhere to go. But here's something you may not know… There are times when women tell men they want to leave… but they don't. They've got other intentions. Now and then, for example, women bring up the words “I have to go in minute” early on in the conversation with a man. That way, if the conversation goes awry, they can politely slink on out. Occasionally these words are a test to see how badly a man wants them to stay. And... Every so often, they use these words as a takeaway. As an attempt to spur a man into chasing or pursuing them. But… regardless of a woman wanting to leave, attempting to make you chase her, or trying to test you, it's well within your reach to compel her to stay… and do it in a way that generates mucho attraction inside her. Here's what to do, and it wasn't long ago that I discovered this secret for myself… If you're talkin' to a woman and she says, “I've gotta go help my guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness.” Respond with: “I've gotta go in a minute myself.” Then say something to rivet her attention: maybe share a funny story, show her something interesting, or hint that you know something about her without letting her know what it is. When you sense you've got her fully engaged, pounce. Stick your fangs into her jugular by bellowing… “Go! You've got to help your guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness! Leave right now. Hurry! Hurry along!” Here's what'll happen 95% of the time… She'll stand their like a dumb deer in headlights, not knowing how to react… but wanting to stay. Let's plunge into the psychology behind this secret… Whenever you force the unconscious mind to decide between two choices it almost always chooses the one that feels most pleasurable in that moment. This needs some explaining... The unconscious mind is like an A.D.D. child. It doesn't care about what will be most pleasurable to it in the future. Instead it lives in the here and now. Whatever it extracts pleasure from in the moment, is what it thinks is most pleasurable to it. Let's look at an example... Have you ever had plans to something really fun, something you were looking forward to doing, but you almost missed out because you got distracted by some show on TV? Rationally you knew better. But because the TV show was the source of pleasure at that moment, your unconscious mind chose it over your plans. You might have followed through on your plans. But I’m willing to bet the thought “I’ll just watch the show” ran through your mind. Same holds true for the girl you're talking to. She might have a date with Johnny Depp. Maybe she's going to collect her lottery winnings. But because her unconscious mind is receiving more pleasure from you in that moment, a part of her is compelled to stay. Here's something else cool… The conscious mind justifies what the unconscious mind decides. As you became more enthralled by the TV show, do you remember thoughts running through your mind like, "Oh... I'll just finish the show. It doesn't matter that much if I am a couple minutes late."? Your conscious mind was attempting to justify your unconscious mind's decision. Can you guess why this is useful? When she unconsciously decides to stay, she consciously thinks to herself: “Wow, gee... this guy's kinda interesting... I guess I can stay a few minutes.” But this barely scratches the surface of what's going on here. The power lies in using a psychologically deadly form of push-pull that taps into neurological hardwiring in her brain. Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to that urge to chow down on your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes? Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your favorite food a person yanking it away from you. Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your desire for the food would grow exponentially. Same thing is true here… By engaging the woman, putting her in a good state, you're pulling her into you. And then… by insisting that she leave through using her own reasons back on her, you're pushing her away, compelling her to emotionally crave you to re-engage her. Doing this is firing off one of dozens of compliance triggers hardwired into a woman's brain. Possessing the knowledge and skills to fire off these compliance triggers is what separates the men from the boys. It distinguishes those who get what they want from those who piddle around experiencing haphazard results at best. Because I want you to be successful women, I've put together a course called Sexual Connections where I transplant the knowledge and skills for firing off these compliance triggers into your brain. Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of Sexual Connections right now. You deserve it. In fact, I'm so confident my course is going to transform your dating life style, I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want. Click here to reserve your copy right now. And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach. Your Loyal Dating Coach, P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in. P.P.S.-If you've got a billing question please email: support@realworldseduction.com Copyright 2008 Superior Living, Inc. All rights reserved."Swinggcat" and "RealWorldSeduction" and "Push-Pull "are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.

how to compel a woman to see you as sausage with two feet

Story & Question From A Reader... "To the genuine Dr. of Attraction, I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for reference. I've tried a lot of other ebooks, cds, dvds etc and wish I'd found your ebook first. From your book I realized that EVERY time I have got the girl, it has been because I have framed myself as the PRIZE. Success story: The *one* super hot girl in my department(computing!) was sitting behind me in the lecture hall. The seats have a gap at the bottom and she 'accidentally' touched my arse with her foot: ME "Can you stop touching my arse please? If you want to touch me, tell me a funny joke or an interesting story first, I'm not just a sausage with feet!" She had a split second of shock on her face before bursting out laughing and giggling with her friends periodically for the rest of the lecture. I turned back cool as you like to continue taking notes. As I left the lecture theatre she was walking behind me with her friends: ME "can you stop stalking me please? I mean all I know about you is that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at least introduce yourself" HER "ok, I'm ..." ME "ok ..., I'm off now but you can give me your number" HER "ok" (writes number) Long story short: We are now buddies of the fornication variety. Question: I have no problems with women when I am alone and all they have to judge me on is how I act with them. However, my male friends are natural leaders where I am not and if women see this it drops my PRIZABILITY. I am wondering what meta-frame I should set to be the leader I am with my girl and my friends? The sausage with feet," N.B, Manchester, UK. Consider yourself lucky to have natural leader friends. A woman isn't gonna stop feeling attraction toward you because your friends are natural leaders. Or think you're any less of a man. If anything, having natural leader friends will increase your value in a woman eyes. It's called "social proof." Word of Caution: If a woman notices you acting different around your friends or witnesses your friends disrespecting you, any attraction she felt risks being put to its demise. Fried in the electric chair to cinders. If your friends don't respect you, my advice, get some new ones. On another note: You, my friend, have mutated yourself into a walking, talking sausage with feet. And have helped pound the myth "computer guys can't get beautiful women" into jelly. Good job. Give yourself a pat on the back. "I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for reference." I've gotten a lot of emails from guys telling me they read my book cover-to-cover and through putting into practice the tools they learned, their success with women exploded beyond what they use to think was possible. Then they picked up a copy of my audio course Foundations For Generating Attraction, listened to the whole thing. As a result their skills and success with women catapulted to a much much higher level of success. Then a month later they went back to my audio course as a reference guide to improve on specific skill sets and sticking points, resulting in their attraction skills becoming even more fine tuned and their success reaching an even higher level. "From your book I realized that EVERY time I have got the girl, it has been because I have framed myself as the PRIZE." Me too. That's why I wrote a book on it. I've noticed that genuine success with women is next to impossible without compelling the woman to FEEL you're the Prize. Most guys agree with me on this. The problem is: How doYou establish yourself as the Prize when interacting with women? Looks and money? I suppose these things could help. But most of us don't look like movie stars and don't sport Bill Gates size bank accounts. That's why I've developed a method for establishing Yourself as the Prize without the need for good looks or a giant bank account. Instead of feeling manipulated, women will sigh, "Finally a real man." This method exploits some simple psychological truths. So simple and obvious and right in front of people's faces, most aren't aware they exist. "ME "Can you stop touching my arse please? If you want to touch me, tell me a funny joke or an interesting story first, I'm not just a sausage with feet!"" This is great. Our culture has hoisted "getting to touch women sexually" up on a high pedestal. Some women exploit this by making their living selling the right to "sexually" touch them for beau coup bucks. It's called "prostitution." What you did, my man, was bait your fishing pole with a bonbon, cast your line up to her pedestal. And then, hot damn! - She took the bait, chomping down on that delicious bonbon, and she was hooked. You reeled her in down off her throne and into your reality... and the rest is history. Let's break down in plain English what you did: 1) Instead of acting like a dumb ass and putting value on getting to touch her, You did the opposite. You put a value on her getting to touch you. The subtext of your words was: "If you want to touch me you're gonna have to earn it." You established that you're the Prize she wants to win over. 2) You exploited one of the big secrets to comedy: doing or saying something unexpected. Women are so used to guys putting value on getting to "sexually" touch them that they feel surprised and titillated when a man does the opposite: When he puts a value on them getting to touch him. Because it's so unexpected, most women are put in stitches. When women are laughing their guard comes tumbling down, making the attraction process exponentially easier. 3) Women have sexual power over most men. Many women know, for example, their sexuality compels many men to buy them gifts. In male/female interactions, togive you another example, it's the woman who decides, most females think, if they're gonna sleep together. Women don't always exploit these sexual powers. But they know they are there. And they know most men are oblivious tothem. Many a woman dream about meeting a man with sexual power over her. Not a rapist or a wife beater. But a man that compels her to want to surrender to him. He's aware of women's sexual power and knows how to take it away from them in an attractive way. This is exactly what YOU did. Is this derisive or manipulative to do to women? Not at all. Women are so used to men bending over backwards to get the opportunity to sexually touch them that they're bored. Novel and exciting for women is interacting with a man having the gall to reverse the sexual dynamic. This takes away their sexual power compelling them to surrender to him, and builds heaps of emotional and sexual tension. Women love this and sexually respond to it. It's flirting at its best. Opportunities to reverse the sexual power of your interactions with women are abound. In my book you'll discover the meta-frame: A tool that gives you the eyes to recognize these sexual dynamics. In my audio course you'll get a full blown education on reversing these sexual dynamics, giving you the power to emotionally compel women to want and reach and chase for more of you. Just imagine one moment, a woman asking you to buy her a drink, you applying the meta-frame, and the next, she's offering to buy YOU a drink and can't keep her little paws off you. There's some simple yet powerful psychology that makes the Meta-Frame consistently successful. But I'm NOT gonna reveal this psychology here. "ME "can you stop stalking me please? I mean all I know about you is that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at least introduce yourself." Now that's money. Women love this. This isn't mean. It's playful banter. You used a special type of tension loop called "Push-Pull." A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you. Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show. A special type of Tension Loop is called "Push-Pull." Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes? When You told her "Can you stop stalking me please?" you were pushing her away from you. But then YOU grabbed her by the scruff of her proverbial neck and pulled her into you with: "I mean all I know about you is that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at least introduce yourself." Love it. Where most guys go wrong with Push-Pull is that they're all Push and no Pull (or, conversely, all Pull and no Push). Some guys constantly Push women away, giving them no validation whatsoever. Sometimes this works. But oftentimes women interpret this as meaning the guy is a mean, manipulative, untrustworthy jerk. Other guys incessantly try to Pull women in by showering them with compliments and barraging them with attention. This rarely works - especially when first meeting a woman...because it doesn't give women any emotional space, leaving them feeling claustrophobic. Also, it communicates to women that the man is needy for validation and approval. When men act this way women think: "He's not the Prize." As you know, women feel no attraction toward men who aren't the Prize. Women, in my experience, DON'T trust men who are all Pull. They think, "Why's he being so nice to me? Is he, maybe, trying to get something from me?" I find it best to mix Push with Pull. Here and there, give her a hard time, challenge her, bust her balls...and so on, while now and then sprinkling in compliments, giving her hints that you like and accept her If you've studied any of my material – especially my audio course - you probably know how to Push a woman away from you and Pull her in, at the Exact same time. Powerful, isn't it?. This combo is lethal, driving women to think to themselves, "there's something dangerously sexy about this guy but I can't put my finger on it." Push-Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master Push-Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push-Pull. Inside my audio course you'll get an advanced education on Push-Pull. But that's only the tip of the iceberg. My audio course is a world class education on dating, attracting, and succeeding with the women you desire. This knowledge took me many long hours of experimenting to discover. And you won't find these secrets anywhere else in the world. Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it. I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want. Click here to reserve your copy right now. And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach. Your Loyal Dating Coach, P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in. P.P.S.-If you need to get in touch with customer support: support@realworldseduction.com Copyright 2007 Superior Living, Inc. All rightsreserved."Swinggcat" and "RealWorldSeduction" and "Push-Pull "are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.

Having Women In Your Life

Having Women In Your Life - Swinggcat

by Swinggcat

I'm going to share with you something that I talk about in my book. If you aren't currently doing what I am about to tell you, DOING IT could increase your success with women a hundred and fifty percent...

Today I'm going to share with you something that I talk about in my book. If you aren't currently doing what I am about to tell you, DOING IT could increase your success with women a hundred and fifty percent...if not more.

Whether you are looking for one-night-stands, threesomes, an awesome girlfriend...or whatever, implementing what you're about to learn will redound in a giant step towards your goal.

Whether you consider yourself to be a slithering lounge lizard, a prodigious Casanova, a stand up guy, or a dilapidated ejaculate, if you are not yet doing what I am about to tell you, doing it will turbo charge your current success with women.

NOT DOING what I'm about to tell you is one of the biggest roadblocks preventing men from ATTRACTING women.

What you are about to learn is probably nothing you haven't already heard. It, however, is one of the most neglected skills - especially by guys learning how to ATTRACT and be more successful with women.

Before I tell you what this secret is, I am going to share a little story with you. When I first became serious about mastering, what I used to perceive as, the ego bruising "social minefields," in order to succeed with the women I desired, I befriended many guys trying, as well, to get this area of their life out of the way.

Some of these guys considered themselves to be spineless little worms. Others thought of themselves as full blown Casanovas. And a few felt like Average Joes. Some were amazing at quickly getting women into bed; while a few, alas, couldn't, even if their life depended on it, talk to a woman.

All of us became really close and formed a taskforce with one goal in mind: To become more successful with women. I made a lot of good friends, and witnessed a few of them do some amazing things, ranging from making out with women in bars to occasionally having sex with a woman they had just met.

Despite what looked to be great success, there was a dark, depressing cloud brooding over us: None of us had any female friends. Some of the group had female friends, but got rid of them, thinking that they would take away time from attracting women. A few had never had a female friend. When we went out we never were just hanging out. Our only goal was to generate attraction in women. We did not have a single morsel of interest interacting with women we felt weren't ATTRACTED to us. When entering a bar, women could feel our hunter energy, a pack wolves waiting to attack. Even if one of us made out with a woman, the night would usually end with just us guys.

Are you starting to get what's wrong with this picture?

Good.

In my book, Real World Seduction, I talk about the importance of making five female friends that fit the archetype of the sort of woman you strive to ATTRACT.

Before breaking down the reasons for making at least five female friends, I'm going to get crystal clear about what I mean by "making friends with women."

If you're someone who sits around with their female friends, giving each other hot pink manicures and pedicures, listening to their problems with men, you're in big trouble. Being friends with women is not about you playing the big passive bottom in their "bitter at men" gang bang. The only exception to this is if you are gay. My point: Being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat your guy friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you act like you are their girlfriend, they interpret it as an unconvincing pretense used to get into their pants.

To reiterate: Being friends with women is about acting the way you would around your guy friends.

Let's discuss the reasons for making friends with women.

Reason # 1: You Will Be More Comfortable Around Women In General:

Men who don't have female friends are usually nervous and uncomfortable around women, causing women to feel uncomfortable around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up by the proverbial scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like a cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes nervous and uncomfortable in his own skin. This results in her becoming nervous and uncomfortable. In her book, this will take you straight to the top of the Creep-O-Meter.

Trying to make women feel comfortable around you when you are uncomfortable in your own skin is usually a losing battle - and often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.

The biggest part of making women feel comfortable is being comfortable in your own skin and around women. The quickest road I know to becoming comfortable in your own skin and around women is to make female friends.

Reason # 2: You Will No Longer Need An Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized Material To Be Successful With Women:

I know some guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially getting women attracted to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed material, things take a floundering turn for the awkward as they buckle completely. One common scenario is that a guy will meet a woman and succeed in generating the emotion inside her of wanting, chasing, and reaching for more of him through using memorized material. She willingly gives him her number. When he calls she has jamais vu (jamais vu is the opposite of deja vu: it is the illusion that you are encountering something you have already experienced for the first time). It is like she is talking to a total stranger and the emotion of her feeling attraction towards him is long gone. Since he doesn't know what to do outside the realm of using memorized material, she treats him like a random telemarketer trying to solicit her, cutting the phone call abnormally short and hanging up. The problem is that this guy neither understands women nor knows how to act around them. One of the best ways for developing these skills is by being friends with women - especially the type you strive to succeed with. Once you have taken the time to implement the skills you learned from my book in the real world and have made a few female friends, you'll start to notice something cool happening in your interactions with women: After talking to a woman for a few minutes you'll know exactly how to generate attraction with her, without having to use rehearsed material. I'm not against using memorized material - in fact, I'm a fan of it. But if you can only interact with women using memorized material, you are in big trouble.

Reason # 3: Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other Women:

Women are clairvoyant when comes to knowing whether or not a man is frequently around women. Women assume that if other females hang around you, then you must be a cool guy. They assume, likewise, that if no females hang around you, something might be wrong with you - bad thing! This is pretty much herd mentality - go figure!

One of the big problems with a lot of the material on how to attract women is that it only focuses on making you feel more confident about yourself. As, alas, you might know, you can do all the affirmations in the world, but if you don't have the social skills to attract women, your out of luck.

Another blunder guys make when learning how to attract women is only memorizing material to say to women. Only memorizing material without understanding why you are doing it is a makeshift solution to attracting and succeeding with women. By just memorizing a few pick up lines, you're cheating yourself out of really learning how to attract women. My book has hundreds of powerful things to say to women. But these are only examples to help you learn the skills needed for attracting women. My belief is that people learn from a combination of explanations and examples. If you ever purchase a product on attracting women that only gives you explanations but no examples or examples - think pick up lines - but no explanations, you are being cheated - big time!

My book takes you through hundreds of real world examples and painstakingly breaks down the structure and purpose of these examples. If you put forth the effort studying my book, you will never have to memorize another person's pick up lines or material again. Because you will understand the underlying structure behind generating attraction with women, allowing you to come up with your own material and lines. So if you haven't picked up my book, do today!

Real World Seduction

'Till next time,

Swinggcat

Down & Dirty Psychology For Piquing Any Woman's Interest

Down & Dirty Psychology For Piquing Any Woman's Interest Many a man uses his whole gamut of tricks in his proverbial bag to pique a beautiful baby’s interest. From demonstrating a lightening quick wit… ... To sharing interesting stories about himself… ... To doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey’s circus… ... To asking her intriguing questions and then sitting there silent the way people sit in church… ... To, if he has a huge schlong like I do, pulling it out and showing it to her. (Mine is nine inches… when I measure from the back of my butt – ca-ching!)… ... And the list goes on. But to his dismay her eyes wander to her cell phone to check to see if anyone called or text messaged her. They meander to the people in back of him. In fact, just about everything in his environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as… 1). She must think I am ugly as sin. 2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese? 3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant? 4). Did I forget to wear deodorant? 5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow’s paper? And if he’s bitter, he might think, “She’s like a warm toilet seat: some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.” Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation. But, alas, she stings him with, “It was nice meeting you but I have to go.” In retrospect, he might think, “Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should’ve never used it.” Most of us have experienced something along these lines. I have more than I’d care to admit. Many of us have thought, “If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.” While this may be true to an extent, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you: The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it. I’ve seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night and bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different. For this reason… You won’t learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article. Instead… I’m going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women. But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you’ll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)… No matter how boring you think you are – even if you think you’re more boring than a ninety year old woman living in a nursing home – I want you to promise me that you won’t change the content of what you talk about with women for one week. Here’s why… I want you to see for yourself how only adding this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success. In school, most of us were taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor. A few minutes listening to you and insomniacs will sleep like babies. But if you wanna become a charismatic Casanova that compels women to hang onto his every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops. A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open. Whenever the human brain is presented with an open loop – unfinished idea, thought, or story – it seeks closure. Open loops are a form of what I call “tension loops” because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman. Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize. Because she seeks resolution to the tension you’ve sparked inside her body and knows that you can bring closure to that tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say. Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, “Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless.” Chances are, she’d have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value. But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She’d feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her. And bada bing, bada boom… This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes. Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal… When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body. But there’s a facet of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet… It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.” One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the brain retains the most information when a loop is open. How does this help you? Everything you tell a woman between opening up a loop and closing it, she probably will remember. I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians… Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense. How can we apply this to seduction and attraction? Here’s an example… When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over. Chances are… after an hour or so elapses, she won’t remember his name or anything about him. Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop. I might say, “When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character. And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome! Why didn’t you keep the name?’ And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek mythology. But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name. The real reason we didn’t name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete – we really loved the name. And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Swinggcat instead.’” In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body, which becomes sexualized. Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word. Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a boring life,” and then moved onto another guy. But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability). Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete. Unfortunately this article only scratches the surface of open loops. However, I’ve put together a course called Foundations For Generating Attraction where you’ll learn the ins and outs of using open loops. And this, my friend, is just the tip of the iceberg of what you’ll discover inside the Foundations For Generating Attraction course. This course gives you a college education on succeeding at every step of the attraction game: from approaching women to engaging them to attracting them to becoming sexually intimate with them. Many of the secrets for succeeding with women you'll learn inside my course aren't available anywhere else in the world because I'm the guy who came up with them. Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it. I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want. Click here to reserve your copy right now. And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do so by clicking here. It's the foundation for everything I teach. Your Loyal Dating Coach, P.S.-If you have a success story you would like to share or a dating question you would like to ask, or a comment you would like to make, please email me at: swinggcatsuccessstory@yahoo.com Make sure to include the fist initial of your first and last name. And include the country, state/province, and city you live in. P.P.S.-If you'v got a billing question please email: support@realworldseduction.com Copyright 2007 Superior Living, Inc. All rightsreserved."Swinggcat" and "RealWorldSeduction" and "Push-Pull "are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.

How to turn a woman into a super soaker

Important note: Later in the email I'll
be revealing a special bonus. If you
don't want to miss it, make sure you
read to the very end of this email.

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In my last email I said I was going
to address a question from a reader:
What was your first experience with
sexual frames?

Well, I'll tell you about it... and
you might have heard me tell this
story before... but what I didn't
share with you were the techniques
that led to moist release.

A few years back I was walking along
3rd Street Promenade in Santa Monica
California. I spotted an attractive
European woman selling cologne.

I won't bore you with the details...
but to make a long story short
after a few minutes of charm she
gave me her number.

Over the next few weeks we talked on
the phone several times. We had great
conversations.

But every time I tried to get together
with her, she'd come up with some excuse.

So I used a tactic I talked about in
another newsletter and a slew of
compliance triggers from Sexual
Connections to get her to meet up with
me.

At this point... I still hadn't used
a sexual frame on a woman. But I had
been working on the model. Doing a
lot of research on what makes women
tick.

Around this time I had picked up a
rare book written by a Danish woman.
What I read in her book scared me a bit.
I found her ideas a little controversial
at first.

But I've field tested her findings and
they're 100% valid.

She introduced me to five primitive
emotions that trigger colossal amounts
of raw sexual arousal in women.

Few men on the planet are aware of
these emotions... and fewer know how to
exploit them (Inside Sexual Connections
you'll discover all five... and learn
heaps of strategies for maximizing
their power.)

Okay... back to the story...

So we decided to meet at a Borders
bookstore.

The day of our date I drove down to
the bookstore and parked my car. Since
she lived a block away, she walked.

Now I have confession to make... I did
something pretty nerdy...

Before the date I spent half an hour
sitting in my car reviewing my notes on
compliance triggers, sexual frames, and the
five primitive emotions.

When I arrived at the bookstore she was
already there. She wasn't happy. I was
fifteen minutes late. It felt awkward: she
was sitting at the opposite end of the
table leaning back with her arm crossed and
lips pursed.

Then she dropped the bomb and said, "I can
only stay five minutes."

As an experiment and a desperate attempt
to salvage the date, I put my sexual frames
to the test. I barraged her with three in a
row.

Then... something I wasn't expecting
happened...

She moved her chair next to mine and started
caressing my hand with hers.

This happened for a number of reasons:

1) The sexual frames evoked every one
her primitive emotions which
triggered raw sexual arousal in
her.

2) They opened her Prizability and Comfort
filters which processed and magnified
the arousal and drove her to act on it.

3) They hit several compliance triggers
inside her brain.

After this, we took a walk near the beach
and then went for a drink. All throughout
the walk and the drink I deluged her with
sexual frame after sexual frame.

She attempted to kiss me a few times. But
I kept pulling away.

At the end of our date she asked if I'd
give her a ride home. On the way to her
house I laid the sexual frames on thick.

But when we arrived, she told me that I
couldn't come inside. I knew this was
token resistance. So I fired two sexual
frames specifically designed for this
type of situation.

And lo and behold... she did a
complete 180...

She was literally begging me to
come and hang out.

Minutes after entering her room,
our clothes were off.

I started stimulating her with my
fingers... and huge amounts of liquid
kept squirting out of her.

I started going down on her and felt
like I was being drowned in her
liquid - she was a human super soaker.

We had sex on her floor and afterwards
there was a big, wet puddle under us.

There's no doubt this woman is extremely
orgasmic and a natural squirter.

But a big part of it was me. I've been
studying sex techniques for years. And
have been with women who told me that
men are incapable of making them orgasm.

To my surprise - and theirs as well - not
only did they orgasm but also squirted.

In the past, I studied a lot of sex
gurus' secrets. And quite frankly, it
seemed like a person needed a medical
degree just to make this stuff work.

That's why I worked my butt off at
coming up with powerful sex techniques
that are so damn simple, even a person
without a smidgen of coordination can
get results on their second or
third try.

I was planning on putting together
a product where I reveal these
techniques.

But I've had a change of heart...

I ran a contest a few days ago and
thousands of readers wrote into me
with beautifully written responses -
if you were one of those people, your
response is much appreciated.

But I just can't make everyone the
winner. And I feel a little bad about
that.

So I've decided to give away my sex
techniques as a bonus to people who
reserve their copy of Sexual
Connections on April 7th between
12:00 PM noon and 2:00 PM. That's the
first two hours from when I release
the course. After that, the bonus will
be gone forever.

On another note: One of my readers
asked me if sexual frames can be used
to seduce women with boyfriends.

I've got a story about this you don't
want to miss. I'll be sending it out on
Friday along with many details about the
Sexual Connections audio course.

Talk to you on Friday,


Swinggcat



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