How To Take A Strong Lead With Women
Women make all kinds of inferences, often unconsciously, about a man based on how he dances.
If you aren't a great dancer don't worry. You'll be fine.
I, for example, dance to a beat no one else can hear. My caveman dancing skills have never prevented me from attracting a woman.
That's because, despite shakin' my booty like a baboon on acid, I communicate something very powerful when dancing: I'm the one taking the lead. She can either follow or not. But it's my way or the highway.
They might not want to continue dancing with me. They probably think I've got no sense of rhythm on the dance floor. But often times, they are confident I know what I'm doing in the bedroom, positive they're dealing with a real man, and certain I'm a prize they want to be with.
Taking a strong lead, though, doesn't only apply to dancing. It should imbue every aspect of your interactions with a woman.
Here’s why…
If you’re the kinda guy who lets women take the lead, then you’ve got a better chance of winning the lottery than experiencing moist relief.
Don’t get me wrong…
For some women, the sight of a man following them around, like a spineless lapdog, gives them chick boner. But these women are few and far between. And usually their names rhyme with witch.
A minority of women inhabiting this planet could care less if a guy is a human doormat. But danger Will Robinson: these women usually tip the scale at around 300lb. Or by the looks of their mug I’d guess their mothers are Cro-Magnon and their fathers are Neanderthal.
But…
Women, almost universally, feel sexually turned off by men who fail to take the lead – both in life and in the bedroom.
Also… most women aren’t gonna take the initiative and make the first move. They’re going to passively wait for you to do it.
If you have a hard time taking the lead with a woman, the fruits of your labor might be a picture of her, a jar of Vaseline, and your right hand – I think you get the picture.
But if you take a strong lead with a woman, you can mutate her vagina from an arid dessert into a freakin’ ocean. Traces of the caveman still reside within our noggin. When you take a strong lead with a woman, it taps into these primitive instincts and builds heaps of sexual arousal.
So what are the ABCs of taking a strong lead with women?
The number 1 thing you can do to take a strong lead is to stop relaying the lead to women. As men, women expect us to lead. But often times, men don’t. They pass the power ball back to the woman.
The number one reason for this is need for a woman’s approval.
Do you know why many men hem and haw over where to take a woman on a date?
Why is it that when many women ask a guy where they are going on a date the guy sheepishly mutters: "Where do you want to go? You decide. Your choice."?
Why are most men scared to make a move on a woman?
The answer to all these questions stems from fear of not getting a woman’s approval.
Guys who struggle to take the lead always tell me things to the tune of this: “I really cared for her well being. That’s why I was so cautious about taking the lead. I wanted to put her feelings above mine. My friend, though. What a selfish bastard. He doesn’t even like her. But for whatever reason he acted really aggressive with her and she slept with him. Life isn’t fair.”
But these guys are dating dyslexics. They’ve got it exactly backwards. They’ve come up with about a billion and one rationalizations for why they care for her.
But if we keep our eye on the ball and look at their actions, we’ll see that they’re approval needing puppy dogs. Everything they do reeks of needing a woman’s approval. They are asking her to give, give, and give. If she were a tree made of approval and she put up with this nonsense, by the time they got finished with her, she’d be a stump. They’re the selfish bastards.
On the other hand, their friend, the one they think is a selfish bastard, leads a woman into something she already wants to do and is biologically programmed to do: have sex. (Don’t let society trick you into thinking that having sex with a woman is taking something from her. It is something most women want to do yet many pretend that they don’t enjoy it and are doing you a favor by having sex with you. Nonsense.)
If you have a habit of giving the lead to the woman, I’m willing to bet it is because you are seeking her approval.
Just training yourself not to seek the approval of women will completely transform your sex life.
But occasionally leading takes a bit more work than just NOT seeking her approval. Sometimes women are resistant to letting men lead yet are only attracted to men who take the lead.
How in the world do you deal with women like this?
Through what I call “compliance triggers.” Put simply, they are neurological triggers in a woman’s brain that when fired unconsciously compel her to follow your lead.
Can females consciously resist what’s happening?
No – because it unconsciously causes them to see reality in such a way that what matters to them most, what consciously makes sense for them to do, is to follow your lead.
Just imagine how easy it would be to emotionally compel a woman to follow your lead if you possessed the power to fire these compliance triggers at your whim. Think of all the girls you would have become intimate with if you had knowledge of these compliance triggers.
Many naturals, without even knowing it, switch these fire these compliance triggers all day long. That’s how they’re able to get resistant women to follow their lead.
The problem is… even if his life depended on it, a natural couldn’t tell you how he fires these compliance trigger.
Up until recently, there wasn’t any place you could learn about these compliance triggers except cold hard experimentation on women in the real world.
Well, over the past several years I’ve uncovered a slew of these compliance triggers.
I’ve put them into my course Sexual Connections where I break down every one of these compliance triggers, spoon feed you step-by-step techniques for firing off each one, and give you specific exercises to hardwire these techniques into your brain so they become a part of who you naturally are.
I might not know you personally. But I do know...
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