A question gnawing away in the back of many people’s skulls is this: Can an ugly guy attract women?
To really beat an answer out of this question, let’s stipulate some rules. The guy has to be less than five feet tall. When his own mother looks at him, she has to think, “I love you sweetie but you are damn ugly!!”
Furthermore, attracting women as ugly as him doesn’t count.
Also… Bedding, dating, or marrying super models doesn’t cut it. Women have a host reasons for sleeping with and marrying guys besides attraction.
The crux of the issue is: Can a guy this ugly generate sexual attraction in beautiful women?
Before answering the question, let’s look at some imminent worries you might have…
When you ask most women what kind of men they are sexually attracted to, they’ll aver, “Tall, dark, and, handsome.”
Push them a bit further and they’ll reveal that they want a man with Brad Pitt’s mug and an elephant sized penis. Tall order to live up, my friend.
But features a woman prefers in a man are just inferences she makes about what attracts her to males. Some of the inferences come from friends, family, and the media. Others are derived from her past experiences with men.
Before we can ascertain “what” women are attracted to we need to explore “how” women become attracted to men.
First and foremost, sexual arousal needs to be present. Arousal is triggered in the reptilian part of our brain. The reptilian part of our brain is also responsible for primitive instincts, such as: fight-or-flight, marking territory and dominance over others.
Perhaps the most ominous part of the reptilian brain is that every feeling it triggers is involuntary.
In fact… there are documented cases of women becoming aroused or orgasmic while being raped. While the rational part of them felt contempt for their perpetrator, their bodies involuntarily became orgasmic.
Many things can cause a woman to become sexually aroused.
A man’s height and muscles can visually arouse a woman similar to how breasts and buttocks can visually arouse a man.
But if you aren’t a piece of eye candy with feet, don’t worry. Visual aesthetics are not a requirement.
Instead, you can use your words and your body language to build sexual arousal in her: from playful banter to push-pull and mixed signals to strong eye contact to intruding her personal space and physical touch… and so on.
But, my friend, sexual arousal by itself isn’t bona fide attraction.
Specific neurological structures in a woman’s brain either process the arousal or stop it dead in its tracks.
These are what I call “brain filters.”
Similar to how a water dam either blocks or allows water to flow through, brain filters either close up and block arousal or open up and allow it to flow through the body.
When they’re opened up, they emotionally and rationally justify the arousal in her body. But when they are closed, they stop it dead in its tracks.
The first brain filter is Prizability. If you’ve got enough value in a woman’s eyes that if you walked away or didn’t validate her, she’d take it as a loss, then you’ve opened up the Prizability filter.
If you happen to be a woman’s “type,” that might be enough to pry her Prizability filter open.
But let’s imagine our 4'11" hero with a mug that would make his own mother balk darting up to a blonde bombshell in a swanky night club and deftly bantering with her. Imagine her crotch brimming with sexual tension.
Alas, if he isn’t her physical type and doesn’t have value in her eyes, then her Prizability filter is gonna seal shut and bring all the sexual arousal to a crippling halt.
Is there a way he can open up her Prizability filter without getting a face transplant or heisting Bill Gates’ bank account?
Stay tuned… I’m going to reveal the answer shortly…
The second filter is Comfort. This is different from the comfort a woman feels for her parents, her pets, or her guy friends who sit around staring at her breasts as she carps on about her latest “boy problems.”
Instead, opening up the Comfort filter is about making her feel comfortable getting sexual with you.
Many guys intuitively know that making a woman feel comfortable getting sexual with them is a key piece.
However, the most common strategies guys use to build rapport and spark connections end up causing women to see them as a girlfriend with a penis. Once a woman puts you in the “girlfriend with a penis” category in her mind, getting sexual with her is downright frustrating.
Though she feels comfortable divulging her deepest darkest secrets to you, putting your paws on her flesh will make her skin crawl. In plain English, you’ve locked her comfort filter shut and thrown away the key.
Is there hope for our ugly hero?
For many years I had mixed feelings on this – as I’m sure many of you have.
On the one hand, I had a few burn-your-eyes-out ugly friends who consistently sparked attraction in beautiful women.
On the other, I had a hard time believing that a drop dead gorgeous woman could authentically feel attraction for an ugly guy.
I'd rationalized my friend's sucess by thinking, "These women must have low self esteem. Or maybe they are acting nice. But there’s no way in hell that they feel a smidgen of attraction for my friends."
Yet...
.... After a few years of real world research I finally understood why ugly guys can be just as effective at attracting women as good looking guys.
And after almost ten years of real world research on attraction, I’ve discovered a step-by-step, scientific method for quickly sucking beautiful women into your reality, annihilating their critical factor, generating raw sexual arousal inside their bodies, and effortlessly prying open their Prizability and Comfort filters that process and magnify this arousal and give you the power to the interaction in the direction you want.
While looks and money might help, you do not need any of these things to make this method work for you.
If you have the ability talk, move your body, and express your face… then this method can bring you absolute power and choice with women.
I've included this entire method in my Sexual Connections course where you will receive a college education on building sexual arousal inside women and pressing buttons in their brain that involunarly compel them take act on that arousal in the direction you choose.
I might not know you personally. But I do know...
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